The Art of Observation

IMG_0123 (2)If we travel back to our birth, we realize that learning did not take place through formal instruction – nor was there a handbook available to us on how to recognize qualities that made up our new environment: new parents, new siblings, new tastes, and new feelings of touch. So how did we learn about the world around us?  We were astute observers, natural students. No one gave us a set of directions on how to notice temperature, touch, taste, or sound. We somehow did it – almost like a miracle. Deep within us lay a knack for observation. Every experience was new and we curiously observed every new sight and sound. Overtime, we began to find patterns among the sounds of voices in our environment. One voice indicated the presence of a caretaker, and yet, another may hint at a nearby playmate.

Because we were beginners in the world, we were able to experience everything as if we were experiencing it for the first time. This quality of our mind is called beginner’s mind in mindfulness meditation. It is a quality that can be harnessed, practice, and strengthened. Seeing things for the first time allows us to suspend fear and judgment for a few moments so we can take in and process the present moment without analysis. Imagine seeing a math problem, which naturally asks us to turn on our pattern-finding, analytical minds. Now, instead of approaching the written problem with anxiety and presupposed judgment, imagine you could just first absorb the numbers, terms, and information from the writing in front of you. You peer with child-like curiosity at the numbers and terms. You wonder what these symbols are and what they may possibly mean. Now, you are truly learning…

Join me in strengthening the childlike quality of our mind called beginner’s mind in “The Art of Observation” meditation below (background “Piano Meditation” music by Chris Collins).

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Stillness

img_0295.jpgStillness helps create space in our minds to think, and time in our day-to-day lives to regain our clarity, patience, and knack for insight. When we become very still, we are able to listen to each sound, experience each breath, and open up to every moment. Our awareness of ourselves in the scheme of the universe expands. Mingled feelings, swarming thoughts, and remnants of experiences re-surface.

All of this may sound familiar to some of us. For most of us, however, stillness is not familiar and the idea of being still sounds exotic. Our minds are used to fears, excitements, frustrations, among many other emotions and feelings. Our hands are almost wired to check our phones or email accounts every fifteen minutes. Our eyes are used to viewing ever-changing images on the screen. There is so much simulation that, when we try to become still, our mind and body refuse to do so. We sit down to read, but the mind is glued to the latest stream of texts from friends, worries about exams, in curiosities about gossip, or virtually any kind of feeling or thought. In the face of all this, it is impressive we are even able to process and grow and learn.

However, if we want to truly learn from each moment and we want to commit to learning, growing, and thriving in every moment, we must first commit to practicing stillness. Yes! You can actually practice this. Let’s begin our first meditation together. In fact, you can lie down for this one. Play the video below to begin the “Stillness Meditation” (background “Piano Meditation” music by Chris Collins).

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Welcome to Learning In Stillness!

Welcome Learning In Stillness Readers!

Peace and Love,

Payal Patel

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